Ladies, so as the year ends, I see lots of post about loneliness and spending another New Year’s Eve alone, well as I always say, I’m no expert in the relationship arena, but I can tell you how to appreciate “YOU”! Keep reading…
Some women feel like you need a man to make you complete. Well in God’s cycle of life, a man is intended to close the circle, but not ANY man!! What you need to do is look at yourself, look at your character, and look at your character flaws. Yes we all have flaws, but we can be flawless by realizing what they are and making adjustment. Now is it easy? Nope!! But you have to really know what it is you want, and don’t settle for anything less. Don’t waste your time with a man who isn’t looking for what you are. If y’all ain’t headed in the same direction, then somebody needs to do a U turn!! Because now all you’re about to do is keep driving down one-way street! Value your worth and don’t accept anything less!! 
Our problem is God gave us this big ole heart to love freely and unconditionally. But we have to learn when to open it and when to close it. It can’t be opened for every person you meet. My motto is, I open the heart until I see that it’s the only heart opened. Then I shut it down. Because I won’t let it get broken by someone who isn’t worthy. Y’all know I always got a story. Lol. Do I want a happily ever after? Sure I do, but that’s exactly what I want. Not a happy today, sad tomorrow, mad the next day, then lonely the day after. The older we get the harder it gets to find a man that is ready for your life. As maturity hits, guess what? You’re more picky and you can be!! We’ve been thru all the bullcrap life had to throw at us! Been thru the drama, the struggle, the hardships! And guess what? Not trying to do that now!! So be careful what you looking for because it may not be what you want!  
So this year, ask God for what you want, and also ask him to remove what isn’t for you in your life. And if you trust him.. He will! Did I ask for that almost perfect man? Nope, I didn’t. Why? Because I want to make sure I’m as close to perfect to be able to meet his need as well as he can meet mine. So when you’re lonely, look at yourself and ask, if you were a man, would you want someone like you? If the answer is no, why? And what needs to change. No one knows you like you know you. 
Love and Hugs
The Real Mommie Teresa